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''Nerde canlı gördüysem, orda güç istemi gördüm… Uşağın isteminde dahi, efendi olma istemini gördüm… Güçlüye hizmet etmeye kendi istemi kandırır güçsüzü… Bu istem, daha güçsüzlere efendilik etmek ister de ondan… Vazgeçmek istemeyeceği tek hazdır bu… Ve küçük, nasıl en küçüğün üstünde keyif sürebilmek, güç yürütebilmek için büyüğe boyun eğerse, en büyük de öyle boyun eğer de, güç uğruna hayatını tehlikeye atar… En büyüğün boyun eğmesi, korkulu olanı, tehlikeyi göze almaktır… Ölüm için zar atmaktır… Ve nerde özveri, hizmet ve sevgi bakışları varsa, orda efendi olma istemi de vardır… Güçsüz, dolambaçlı yollardan sokulur kaleye… Güçlünün ta bağrına… Ordan güç çalar… Ve hayat kendisi, şu sırrı açtı bana… Bak dedi… ‘Ben hep kendini alt etmesi gerekenim…’ Doğru, siz ona doğurma istemi, ya da bir amaca daha yüksek, daha uzak, daha çeşitli bir şeye yönelmiş bir itki dersiniz… Ama bunların hepsi birdir… Bir tek sırdır… '' Kendini Altetme Üstüne - Friedrich Nietzsche
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''Nerde canlı gördüysem, orda güç istemi gördüm… Uşağın isteminde dahi, efendi olma istemini gördüm… Güçlüye hizmet etmeye kendi istemi kandırır güçsüzü… Bu istem, daha güçsüzlere efendilik etmek ister de ondan… Vazgeçmek istemeyeceği tek hazdır bu… Ve küçük, nasıl en küçüğün üstünde keyif sürebilmek, güç yürütebilmek için büyüğe boyun eğerse, en büyük de öyle boyun eğer de, güç uğruna hayatını tehlikeye atar… En büyüğün boyun eğmesi, korkulu olanı, tehlikeyi göze almaktır… Ölüm için zar atmaktır… Ve nerde özveri, hizmet ve sevgi bakışları varsa, orda efendi olma istemi de vardır… Güçsüz, dolambaçlı yollardan sokulur kaleye… Güçlünün ta bağrına… Ordan güç çalar… Ve hayat kendisi, şu sırrı açtı bana… Bak dedi… ‘Ben hep kendini alt etmesi gerekenim…’ Doğru, siz ona doğurma istemi, ya da bir amaca daha yüksek, daha uzak, daha çeşitli bir şeye yönelmiş bir itki dersiniz… Ama bunların hepsi birdir… Bir tek sırdır… '' Kendini Altetme Üstüne - Friedrich Nietzsche
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Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes.
Don’t resist them - that only creates sorrow.
Let reality be reality.
Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
| — | Lao Tzu (via purplebuddhaproject) |
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| Richard Russo, Empire Falls |
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24 Ocak 2016 Pazar
10 Behaviors of Genuine People
Whether you’re building a
business, a network, or friendships, you always want to look for people
who are genuine. After all, nobody wants to work or hang out with a phony.
On the flipside, that goes for you, as well. Bet you never considered that.
In case
you're wondering, genuine means
actual, real, sincere, honest. Genuine people are more or less the same on the
inside as their behavior is on the outside. Unfortunately, it's a tough
quality to discern. The problem is that all human interactions are
relative. They’re all a function of how we perceive each other through our own
subjective lenses.
Being
genuine is also a rare quality. In a world full of phony fads, media hype,
virtual personas, positive thinkers, and personal brands – where everyone wants
what they don’t have, nobody’s content to be who they are, and, more
importantly, nobody’s willing to admit to any of that – it’s becoming more and
more rare all the time.
To help
you identify this rare breed -- in yourself, as well -- this is how genuine
people behave.
They don’t seek attention. They don’t need constant reinforcement of
their own ego. Where attention seekers have a hole that constantly needs to be
filled, genuine people are already filled with self-confidence and
self-awareness.
They’re not concerned with being liked. The
need to be liked is born of insecurity and narcissism. It creates a need to
manipulate your own and other’s emotions. Confident and authentic people are
simply themselves. If you like them, fine. If not, that’s fine, too.
They can tell when others are full of it. Perhaps naïve folks can be easily fooled, but
genuine people are not naïve. They’re grounded in reality and that gives them a
baseline from which they can tell when things don’t add up. There’s a big
difference.
They are comfortable in their own skin. In his late 70s, actor Leonard Nimoy said he
was closer than ever to being as comfortable with himself as Spock appeared to
be. Most of us struggle with that. As Henry David Thoreau observed, “The mass
of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”
They do what they say and say what they mean. They don’t tend to overreach or exaggerate.
They meet their commitments. And they don’t parse their words or sugarcoat
the truth. If you need to hear it, they’ll tell you … even if it’s tough for
them to say and for you to hear.
They don’t need a lot of stuff. When you’re comfortable with whom you are,
you don’t need a lot of external stuff to be happy. You know where to find
happiness – inside yourself, your loved ones, and your work. You find happiness
in the simple things.
They’re not thin-skinned. They don’t take themselves too seriously so
they don’t take offense when none is intended.
They’re not overly modest or boastful. Since they’re confident of their strengths,
they don’t need to brag about them. Likewise, they don’t exhibit false modesty.
Humility is a positive trait but it’s even better to just be straightforward.
They’re consistent. You might describe genuine people as being
weighty, solid, or substantial. Since they know themselves well and are in
touch with their genuine emotions, they’re more or less predictable ... in a
good way.
They practice what they preach. They’re not likely to advise people to do
something they wouldn’t do themselves. After all, genuine people know they’re
no better than anyone else so it’s not in their nature to be self-righteous.
All those
seemingly different behaviors have the same thing at their core: self-awareness
that’s consistent with reality. Genuine people see themselves as others would
if they were objective observers. There’s not a lot of processing,
manipulating, or controlling going on between what’s in their head and what
people see and hear.
Once you
get to know them, genuine people turn out to be more or less consistent with
the way they initially hold themselves out to be. What you see is what you get.
It's sad that, in today's world, such a positive quality is at risk
of becoming endangered. Not only is it harder to find in others, it's
becoming harder to be genuine ourselves.
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